boys.....

"It’s funny how all of us girls build this dream guy in our head, and we always end up falling too quickly for the ones that are just “good enough”, but they really don’t fit the idea in our heads at all. There always seems to be something missing from the ones we cling to so quickly. And usually that “something” is a huge “dream guy” priority.

The funny thing? When you least expect it, the actual guy you’ve been dreaming of will walk into your life at the exact moment you need him most. He’ll take your breath away, and sweep you off of your feet without even saying a word. The things you love about him won’t be the things you ever loved about anyone else. It will be the way he talks, and how his awkwardness fits yours perfectly. The way he doesn’t try to fit in with everyone around him. The way his eyes smile, and how he makes your heart smile. The way that a hug can mean so much more than any other hug you’ve ever experienced. And the way that you can’t wipe the actual smile off of your face for hours after seeing him."

For the record, i believe that "dream guy" we girls all fantasize about, do not exist at all. Even if he does, behind that perfection, there will always be flaws. There will always be that douchey part of him you want to murder multiple times. Nobody is perfect. And yes, we should not expect so much. cause if we don't, we don't get disappointed. or too disappointed. Just get over it. The dream guy in the films we all fantasize about who appears infront of you unexpectedly, with flowers in his hand (as much as i say i hate flowers, cmon im a girl) , an "im sorry" card on the other, with that cute sorry smile. It does not happen in real life. In the real world, all you get is just 25 miss calls and spam text that says 'sorry ok'. No, the guy that knows exactly what's on your mind, pleases you because he knows exactly what you want, does.not.exist. No, the guy in those sappy movies that 'sweeps you off your feet' because of the things he do that will make you feel his love.... he does not exist.

Even though i make it a point to everyone how i hate all these sappy lame romantic shit. I'm a girl......................which girl in the right mind won't feel touched?

xx